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Dear Dr D,

I am really depressed. I'm 49 and my wife is 46. We've had a pretty good marriage until the last year or two. We've raised two great kids and now something is wrong. My wife doesn't want to make love with me anymore. She's gained a lot of weight over the years, maybe forty pounds. Even though she's heavy, she still turns me on. . .

Former First Lady Rosalynn Carter in her book Helping Yourself Help Others writes:

"There are only four kinds of people in the world. Those who have been caregivers. Those who currently are caregivers. Those who will be caregivers. Those who will need caregivers."

I am delighted that someone is trying to develop a new product that once it's perfected will help sexually active men and women of all ages. Men rarely talk about the difficulty with one-size-fits-all condoms and their prevailing distaste for using them at all. Yes, wise and responsible men use them anyway to prevent STD's and unwanted conception, but I've never heard a man say he likes them. . .

For six years I was the guardian of the gate for our local Catholic church here in Iowa. A parish secretary's job is not easy, but it can be very rewarding. Unfortunately, everything you do is scrutinized closely by the congregation. If you have a second job, perhaps you might think twice before allowing anyone to know what you do in your spare time. It can cause you headaches. . .

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